Free guide · 10 Questions to Find an Equal Partner

Your standards aren't the problem. Your filters are.

10 questions to ask early, on the apps, on the phone or on a first date, so you can spot an emotionally equal partner before you waste your time.

✓  The question that shows how he really sees partnership

✓  What to listen for when he talks about conflict

✓  The one answer that means he's not your person

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Strategy over hope

I used to choose men by their resume.

I'm Amanda Carroll. Once I started choosing by the kind of relationship I wanted, I met my husband. I've since helped 1,200 women stop guessing and start choosing.

Divorced with two teenage girls and dreading 100 first dates. She met Graham on her fourth date.

Kendra + Graham

Widowed after marrying at 20, she had never dated. She found Stephen in her first month.

Grace + Stephen

Five years on the apps, traveling 80% for work. Now Corey tucks handwritten notes in her suitcase.

Jessica + Corey

If he can't say yes to these, don't say yes to him.

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